Heartbreak is the hardest hurt to work through, but it can be done,
especially, if you use your spiritual understanding, that if the person
has hurt you, then you shouldn't be with that person, anyway.
As long as you harbor harsh feelings against this person, you're
tied to them. Forgive them; let them go; you're free, your
own person, once again.
Remember- you found this one; you can find another, but better, for
you. To do this- you must look at your romantic patterns; find out
what it was about that person, which drew you, to them.
Once you find out all the things that drew you to him or her, then
look and see, which of these things aren't positive, and growth
oriented, for both of you.
Eliminate those, from what's going to draw you to someone, and when
it comes up, work through it; know, and say- you're more
important, than trying to do that which is going to hurt you, in the
long run.
Do not do those things you know are going to hurt you; don't
put on rose colored glasses, so you ignore the sign,s that are always
there, if this person is one you want to try to get to know.
Remember: in the first five minutes of talking with someone, you will
know whether they're right, to get to know, or not.
Along with this, go through a list of your good and bad points;
start working on enhancing the good, and transforming the bad, which
are seen as good, because they do something, for you, to positive steps
which is going to help you find the right love, for you.
especially, if you use your spiritual understanding, that if the person
has hurt you, then you shouldn't be with that person, anyway.
As long as you harbor harsh feelings against this person, you're
tied to them. Forgive them; let them go; you're free, your
own person, once again.
Remember- you found this one; you can find another, but better, for
you. To do this- you must look at your romantic patterns; find out
what it was about that person, which drew you, to them.
Once you find out all the things that drew you to him or her, then
look and see, which of these things aren't positive, and growth
oriented, for both of you.
Eliminate those, from what's going to draw you to someone, and when
it comes up, work through it; know, and say- you're more
important, than trying to do that which is going to hurt you, in the
long run.
Do not do those things you know are going to hurt you; don't
put on rose colored glasses, so you ignore the sign,s that are always
there, if this person is one you want to try to get to know.
Remember: in the first five minutes of talking with someone, you will
know whether they're right, to get to know, or not.
Along with this, go through a list of your good and bad points;
start working on enhancing the good, and transforming the bad, which
are seen as good, because they do something, for you, to positive steps
which is going to help you find the right love, for you.
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