One of the strains- on relationships, marriages, partnerships, etc., is
the ability of the parties, within this relationship, to remain honest,
truthful, within the relationship, and not go out, and be, with another
person.
In love relationships, this is going outside of the love relationship,
one believes they have, and the other(s) having a different idea, of
what being in a relationship means.
If you're going to be in a relationship, which has defined, or
culturally defined guidelines, expectations, legal ramification, then
you're saying, you're going to abide by them.
If you want to change those guidelines/laws, then you have an
obligation, to inform the other party, you're opening up
negotiations, to renegotiate, what's meant by the two relationship.
This, of course, leaves open the possibility, a total Super Nova, occuring, destroying
whatever relationship you had, but if you want to be not confined to
what you agreed with before, you're bound- to reopen negotiations, and
to deal with the consequences, of that renegotiations.
The danger, of course, is where you want more freedom, your
relationship mate/wife/husband may not be ready, for that, and may
never be ready, for that.
Here is where wanting your cake and ice cream begins; you want to
keep what you have, for it's comfortable; you're getting a good
return on your investment, in the relationship, but you want the ice
cream of going ou,t and having choices of ice cream, for a multi-
taste, and consumption.
You're, now, considered a con; you're saying one thing, and doing
another. You're not being honest, with your mate/partner; because you
want to have the best of all worlds, and after all, you're the best, and
you deserve it.
You have placed yourself in an the highest level of heirarchial power,
in the relationship, you have. You want to make the rules, while
reaping the reward, of new flavors of ice cream ( this is a symbol ).
You're creating a false reality, which, if not maintained, by high
energy, begins to fall apart, and the shadows are ripped away, and the
truth- comes out.
It could be one of the flavors you're enjoying outside of your
relationship, will blow the whistle, or it may come out in another way.
You then have to decide- to work, to keep the relationship, or to let it
go.
You're a con now; you got away, with it before, if you're good, you
can fool your mate again, and start up, where you left off, but with
more secretive liasions, so nothing is going to show u,p to blow your
cover.
You've become a relationship criminal; you're totally dishonest, and
not strong enough, or too wrapped up in your own desires, to realize
what you're doing, to all other parties, in relationships, with you,
unless of course you're using professional women/men, to have your
outside fun with.
You're placing your entire family in danger, if you catch
something, whether STDs or worse, you're putting your family in danger
of being sick, because of your activities.
No one is saying you have to maintain a relationship, but you have to
be honest about it, and allow the other person, to decide, if they want
to continue the relationship with you or not. Legal consequences, will
be part of the deal, if a marriage or partnership is involved, so you
will have to deal with this, but you're being honest and above board,
allowing your primary relationship partner/mate, to decide, what's
best for them, as you have decide what's best for you.
the ability of the parties, within this relationship, to remain honest,
truthful, within the relationship, and not go out, and be, with another
person.
In love relationships, this is going outside of the love relationship,
one believes they have, and the other(s) having a different idea, of
what being in a relationship means.
If you're going to be in a relationship, which has defined, or
culturally defined guidelines, expectations, legal ramification, then
you're saying, you're going to abide by them.
If you want to change those guidelines/laws, then you have an
obligation, to inform the other party, you're opening up
negotiations, to renegotiate, what's meant by the two relationship.
This, of course, leaves open the possibility, a total Super Nova, occuring, destroying
whatever relationship you had, but if you want to be not confined to
what you agreed with before, you're bound- to reopen negotiations, and
to deal with the consequences, of that renegotiations.
The danger, of course, is where you want more freedom, your
relationship mate/wife/husband may not be ready, for that, and may
never be ready, for that.
Here is where wanting your cake and ice cream begins; you want to
keep what you have, for it's comfortable; you're getting a good
return on your investment, in the relationship, but you want the ice
cream of going ou,t and having choices of ice cream, for a multi-
taste, and consumption.
You're, now, considered a con; you're saying one thing, and doing
another. You're not being honest, with your mate/partner; because you
want to have the best of all worlds, and after all, you're the best, and
you deserve it.
You have placed yourself in an the highest level of heirarchial power,
in the relationship, you have. You want to make the rules, while
reaping the reward, of new flavors of ice cream ( this is a symbol ).
You're creating a false reality, which, if not maintained, by high
energy, begins to fall apart, and the shadows are ripped away, and the
truth- comes out.
It could be one of the flavors you're enjoying outside of your
relationship, will blow the whistle, or it may come out in another way.
You then have to decide- to work, to keep the relationship, or to let it
go.
You're a con now; you got away, with it before, if you're good, you
can fool your mate again, and start up, where you left off, but with
more secretive liasions, so nothing is going to show u,p to blow your
cover.
You've become a relationship criminal; you're totally dishonest, and
not strong enough, or too wrapped up in your own desires, to realize
what you're doing, to all other parties, in relationships, with you,
unless of course you're using professional women/men, to have your
outside fun with.
You're placing your entire family in danger, if you catch
something, whether STDs or worse, you're putting your family in danger
of being sick, because of your activities.
No one is saying you have to maintain a relationship, but you have to
be honest about it, and allow the other person, to decide, if they want
to continue the relationship with you or not. Legal consequences, will
be part of the deal, if a marriage or partnership is involved, so you
will have to deal with this, but you're being honest and above board,
allowing your primary relationship partner/mate, to decide, what's
best for them, as you have decide what's best for you.
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